The Outcast...

I remember as far back as 3 years old, almost like it was yesterday; but in a dream. I remember Mom and Dad on bath night, sitting me in with my 2 older sisters, as well as other things like Christmas in Redstone! At age 3, we moved into the town of Plentywood, which is where all 3 of us were born, because Redstone, even back then, was like a ghosttown...if you blinked, you would miss it! Thats the way it IS in far Northeastern Montana, where the winters are the worst anywhere! If you wanna get lost, and aren't familiar with the desolation of N.E. MT, just find your way up there...u can hide out ANYWHERE there and probably never be found!

When our family of 5 moved from the little Redstone house that my Dads Father built when Dad was little, we moved to a little 10x20 trailor house at the Plentywood Airport(which was at the top of the hill...and BOY could the winds howl! Trees are scarce, so Dad ended up putting rubber tires on the roof to keep it from being so noisy when the wind blew)! He was a professional Pilot for 50 years, so we lived at the airport until I was about 8 years old so he could manage its goins on! My sisters and I rode the school bus into town to school everyday...I looked forward to that every morning, but was really ornery and would purposely miss it in the afternoon sometimes! My friends came 1st, as usual! As it was, when I was 8 we moved into Plentywood into our brand new home, where all of us had our own bedrooms, and my best friends from school were our backdoor neighbors(and the lady who lived up the street ended up being my Teacher in the 5th grade)!

Because of the fact that I was in and out of school so much in order for my Mom and I to take the train to Spokane to the Shrine Clinic/Hospital, it didn't take long to become a social outcast because of what we now know of as ADD, lack of social skills, and being considered "slow;" I couldn't concentrate in school(my grades showed it, so I even got kicked out of band soon after I started in 5th grade)!

In December of 1969, during Christmas Vacation from school(5th grade), I again went to Spokane; but this time, to spend 2 months bedridden in traction. It was during this time that my family moved to Billings, to the heights. When I got out of the hospital, I finished out 5th grade at Bitterroot School. During the summer of 1970, we moved to the west end, where I went to Central Heights School during my 6th grade year. When I got out of Shriners, I was wearing a Milwaukee Brace in hopes of my back straightening up somewhat to minimize, once again, the severity of surgery...this and the traction were only attempts at helping my back, and as it was, after wearing the brace for 2 years, thats when I ended up in Boise for what ended up being 2 major 8 hour surgeries a week apart...when I was discharged from St Alphonsus Hospital, I was in a body cast for 9 months(from chest to waist, like the brace was). During the summer of 1972, after 2 years of brace and agonizing operations, we moved to Circle Montana where I finished my last 5 years of school. If there's anytime in my life that I could go back and do over it would be that time in Circle!!! I had moved there, still being an outcast(little did I know just how much until all the bullying started), in pain from the surgeries and needing strong painkillers as well as breaks to go lay down-my new beginning was an emotional upheavel...painful in more ways than one! The biggest turning point in my life was H.S. Graduation, then my stepmom ousting me as they prepped to move back to Plentywood...yes...stepmom; my mother was killed in a carwreck outside of circle in 10/72, 3 months after moving there...some local home boys who got away with murder; they were dragracing at 80 mph when they Tboned my moms car(my sis and I were with her)...she died instantly, and the boykillers walked...my Dad made the comment that if his Billings Attorney told him "If I would have been handling your case, the boys would have paid their dues."
My Dad remarried within 4 months...and it was he and Mary Jo who moved to Plentywood(again...for him...) after moving me to Wolf Point MT to work...I ended up going to college in Miles City though in the fall of 1979, and finished out in Billings in June of 1988...